A good policy is to spoil her before and spoil him after. So try to pick up on what the other needs and communicate what you think you need. We should be talking about skill here. Most important thing of all is oral ability because it tells you immediately how much effort she puts into pleasing her partner. A lot of it has to do with her interaction with her lover. Can she only put the head in her mouth?
According to this Infidelity Surveycheating is way more common among married couples than you might think.
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And you should, says Herbenick, because—jealousy aside—it's important to know what kind of situation you might be getting yourself into. But that doesn't mean you can't figure it out with a few less direct questions. Let me be generous. Most guys are a big puddle of aching sweat after sex and will often go beyond the comfortable limits of their body while they are riding on so many endorphins. I have a big heart my doctor says dangerously so.